A First Generation CBC on Immigration

I’m first generation CBC – not the network, but Canadian born Chinese.  The US elections and their focus on immigration has had me thinking, and to be honest, I really don’t know WHAT to think.  My views on this topic… Continue Reading

The Loneliness of Being an Awaiting Parent by Surrogacy

As you probably know, I’m expecting, but I’m not pregnant.  I’m not adopting, either.  I’m having a baby through surrogacy and I’ve found it to be very lonely at times.  Many people don’t seem to understand the concept (I mean,… Continue Reading

Repost from DelectablyChic!: Crazy Rich Asians: Extravagant, Over-the-Top, Yet Fresh Look

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Note:  This was originally posted on DelectablyChic! in 2013.  It is a review of the NOVEL, not the MOVIE.  The MOVIE premieres on August 15 (in North America). When I first heard about Kevin Kwan’s debut novel, I was excited… Continue Reading

Young People, Idealism and Being Realistic

I’m not even 40 and I’m beginning to rant about young people.  Actually, it’s not just millennials and Gen Z, but people who seem very idealistic – too idealistic (even some baby boomers!  Yeah, people my parents’ age.  Seriously, did… Continue Reading

Check Your ‘Birth Parent Privilege,’ Please!

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By now, you probably know that we are having a baby via surrogate.  We decided long ago that we will be very open about how our son or daughter came into our lives, but it’s been very difficult to find… Continue Reading

Politics, Determination Stories, Diversity and Privilege

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In New York, Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez’s victory in the Democratic primaries has made her a star.  Not only is she very young – 28, making her a millennial – she is a child of immigrants who came from a less-than-privileged background… Continue Reading

Old Post from DelectablyChic!: Casualization of the Wardrobe and Apologizing for What I Wear

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NOTE: This was originally posted on DelectablyChic! in 2015 (well, the text – the photo is recent).  Three years later, I stand by what I wrote – perhaps even MORE SO, thanks to certain people (see my last post on … Continue Reading