Dear Government: Choice is Choice and THAT’S FINAL!

Ending the freedom for a woman to choose in many red states south of the border scares me. The fact that there were WOMEN MPs in Canada who attended anti-abortion rallies scare me even more. I don’t understand why they’d… Continue Reading

Twisting Tradition: Bastardization or Not?

As many of you know, I became a mom just a few months ago. My son, carried by a gestational surrogate, was born in October, five weeks early. He was healthy, and “big” for his gestational age (over six pounds),… Continue Reading

A First Generation CBC on Immigration

I’m first generation CBC – not the network, but Canadian born Chinese.  The US elections and their focus on immigration has had me thinking, and to be honest, I really don’t know WHAT to think.  My views on this topic… Continue Reading

The Loneliness of Being an Awaiting Parent by Surrogacy

As you probably know, I’m expecting, but I’m not pregnant.  I’m not adopting, either.  I’m having a baby through surrogacy and I’ve found it to be very lonely at times.  Many people don’t seem to understand the concept (I mean,… Continue Reading

Young People, Idealism and Being Realistic

I’m not even 40 and I’m beginning to rant about young people.  Actually, it’s not just millennials and Gen Z, but people who seem very idealistic – too idealistic (even some baby boomers!  Yeah, people my parents’ age.  Seriously, did… Continue Reading